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How Complex Trauma Messes With Relationships | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 9 48:06

How Complex Trauma Messes With Relationships | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 9

Why Failing Might Be the Most Important Thing You Ever Do 0:55

Why Failing Might Be the Most Important Thing You Ever Do

Fear of Failure, Fear of Change, Fear of the Unknown: Here’s Where It Begins 11:11

Fear of Failure, Fear of Change, Fear of the Unknown: Here’s Where It Begins

The Power of Healing Complex Trauma After Years of Living with Shame 2:38

The Power of Healing Complex Trauma After Years of Living with Shame

What Complex Trauma Survivors Need to Know About Their Anger 14:38

What Complex Trauma Survivors Need to Know About Their Anger

Why You Crash Out from “Small” Things: Complex Trauma and Low Stress Tolerance 11:08

Why You Crash Out from “Small” Things: Complex Trauma and Low Stress Tolerance

Emotional Triggers: It’s Not Just Your Mom, It’s Your Inner Wounds 0:52

Emotional Triggers: It’s Not Just Your Mom, It’s Your Inner Wounds

Figuring out who you are as part of your healing process takes time and patience 0:55

Figuring out who you are as part of your healing process takes time and patience

Self-validation is not pride or a big ego—it's what you deserve | @lisamtickel 1:13

Self-validation is not pride or a big ego—it's what you deserve | @lisamtickel

11 Maladaptive Ways Trauma Teaches Us to Cope | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 9 44:19

11 Maladaptive Ways Trauma Teaches Us to Cope | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 9

False Guilt and Complex Trauma 9:11

False Guilt and Complex Trauma

How Does Complex Trauma Cause People to Confuse Validation With Love? | With @lisamtickel 15:55

How Does Complex Trauma Cause People to Confuse Validation With Love? | With @lisamtickel

In complex trauma, we learn we must EARN love | @lisamtickel 1:37

In complex trauma, we learn we must EARN love | @lisamtickel

Emotional reasoning: When it feels SO true, how can it be wrong? 1:45

Emotional reasoning: When it feels SO true, how can it be wrong?

Why You Push People Away—Even When You Want Them Close 9:06

Why You Push People Away—Even When You Want Them Close

The Deconstruction Series | Why I Made This Series 3:12

The Deconstruction Series | Why I Made This Series

Complex trauma leaves emotional growth frozen in time — recovery is the hard work of restarting it 1:05

Complex trauma leaves emotional growth frozen in time — recovery is the hard work of restarting it

How Feelings Can Override Reality and Impact Your Decisions 1:46

How Feelings Can Override Reality and Impact Your Decisions

Fears | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 8 47:25

Fears | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 8

Depression & The Fear of Hope: Complex Trauma's Double Bind 17:56

Depression & The Fear of Hope: Complex Trauma's Double Bind

From 0 to 100: Why Trauma Survivors Can't Regulate Emotions 8:50

From 0 to 100: Why Trauma Survivors Can't Regulate Emotions

Why We Stuff Our Feelings Down: The Emotional Aftermath of Childhood Trauma 14:05

Why We Stuff Our Feelings Down: The Emotional Aftermath of Childhood Trauma

Narcissists are highly sensitive to criticism or perceived slights 0:48

Narcissists are highly sensitive to criticism or perceived slights

What are "Love Languages"? | Why a mismatch in styles does not doom a relationship 1:45

What are "Love Languages"? | Why a mismatch in styles does not doom a relationship

Validation Wounds: What Your Childhood Made You Crave (or Reject) 1:54

Validation Wounds: What Your Childhood Made You Crave (or Reject)

What Complex Trauma Really Does to Your Emotions | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 7 46:01

What Complex Trauma Really Does to Your Emotions | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 7

How Complex Trauma Leads to a Hypersensitivity to Disrespect and Criticism 14:10

How Complex Trauma Leads to a Hypersensitivity to Disrespect and Criticism

What happens when you weren't validated by your parents when you were a child 1:14

What happens when you weren't validated by your parents when you were a child

Why You Long for Intimacy, but Can't Get Over Your Fear 10:09

Why You Long for Intimacy, but Can't Get Over Your Fear

Beyond Survival — How Childhood Trauma Teaches Us to Manipulate 10:04

Beyond Survival — How Childhood Trauma Teaches Us to Manipulate

Why jealousy is a powerful negative force fueled by shame and control 2:22

Why jealousy is a powerful negative force fueled by shame and control

When the Honeymoon Period Ends: Power Dynamics in Codependent Relationships 0:59

When the Honeymoon Period Ends: Power Dynamics in Codependent Relationships

Isolated by a Narcissist? How They Separate You From Loved Ones 0:36

Isolated by a Narcissist? How They Separate You From Loved Ones

How Does Childhood Trauma Affect Our Emotions? | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 6 50:45

How Does Childhood Trauma Affect Our Emotions? | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 6

Why Your Fear of Becoming a Burden Might Be Your Biggest Obstacle 19:35

Why Your Fear of Becoming a Burden Might Be Your Biggest Obstacle

Identifying Toxic and Covert Narcissistic Behaviors 1:50

Identifying Toxic and Covert Narcissistic Behaviors

Narcissistic Parenting and Why You Feel Like a Burden 12:55

Narcissistic Parenting and Why You Feel Like a Burden

Why Shame Affects 100% of People with Complex Trauma 11:51

Why Shame Affects 100% of People with Complex Trauma

Shame hides in relationships as codependency—the dance of earning love instead of unconditional love 1:00

Shame hides in relationships as codependency—the dance of earning love instead of unconditional love

What are Depersonalization and Derealization? 0:41

What are Depersonalization and Derealization?

Brain Fog is not just a lack of mental clarity. For many, it's a survival mechanism. 1:49

Brain Fog is not just a lack of mental clarity. For many, it's a survival mechanism.

9 Ways Shame Changes Your Relationships With Others | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 5 47:52

9 Ways Shame Changes Your Relationships With Others | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 5

The Dance of Codependency: Unpacking Shame and Its Impact on Relationship Dynamics and Fulfillment 9:54

The Dance of Codependency: Unpacking Shame and Its Impact on Relationship Dynamics and Fulfillment

Hypersensitivity—to light, sounds, smells, tastes, and touch—can be rooted in Complex Trauma. 0:57

Hypersensitivity—to light, sounds, smells, tastes, and touch—can be rooted in Complex Trauma.

When Survival Becomes Who We Are: A Basic Look at Complex Trauma 9:05

When Survival Becomes Who We Are: A Basic Look at Complex Trauma

"Am I Ever Going to Heal from My Shame?" | Healing Shame as Part of Complex Trauma Recovery 39:01

"Am I Ever Going to Heal from My Shame?" | Healing Shame as Part of Complex Trauma Recovery

Hypervigilance is a Sign of Complex Trauma 0:31

Hypervigilance is a Sign of Complex Trauma

What they don't tell you about "Staying Strong".. 0:24

What they don't tell you about "Staying Strong"..

You have to Stop Doomscrolling (Why Setting Healthy Boundaries Can Help) 0:30

You have to Stop Doomscrolling (Why Setting Healthy Boundaries Can Help)

6 More Characteristics of the Shame-Based Identity | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 4 45:26

6 More Characteristics of the Shame-Based Identity | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 4

What Happens If Your Parents Never Said "I Love You"? 2:15

What Happens If Your Parents Never Said "I Love You"?

Why Are Complex Trauma and Shame So Connected? 10:21

Why Are Complex Trauma and Shame So Connected?

4 Ways Complex Trauma Takes Your Sense of Control (and Puts the Limbic Brain in the Driver's Seat) 11:49

4 Ways Complex Trauma Takes Your Sense of Control (and Puts the Limbic Brain in the Driver's Seat)

Sympathetic and Parasympathetic Nervous System Imbalance: The Characteristics of Complex Trauma 3:00

Sympathetic and Parasympathetic Nervous System Imbalance: The Characteristics of Complex Trauma

Addicted to Chaos: The Role of Cortisol and Adrenaline in Complex Trauma 2:56

Addicted to Chaos: The Role of Cortisol and Adrenaline in Complex Trauma

Why Fighting Burnout Only Makes it Worse #burnout 1:13

Why Fighting Burnout Only Makes it Worse #burnout

7 Ways Complex Trauma Distorts Your Self-Identity | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 3 46:11

7 Ways Complex Trauma Distorts Your Self-Identity | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 3

The Basics of Burnout and Complex Trauma | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma 8:55

The Basics of Burnout and Complex Trauma | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma

Flashbacks, Memory Gaps, and Brain Fog: How Complex Trauma Affects Memory 10:16

Flashbacks, Memory Gaps, and Brain Fog: How Complex Trauma Affects Memory

12 Signs of Narcissism in Leadership - Complex Trauma 21:33

12 Signs of Narcissism in Leadership - Complex Trauma

Burnout and Complex Trauma: Tim Fletcher's Personal Struggle 1:01

Burnout and Complex Trauma: Tim Fletcher's Personal Struggle

Trust Issues? The Hidden Childhood Beliefs Destroying Your Connections 0:54

Trust Issues? The Hidden Childhood Beliefs Destroying Your Connections

Doomscrolling and Finding Comfort in Chaos  #complextrauma 0:32

Doomscrolling and Finding Comfort in Chaos #complextrauma

11 Ways Complex Trauma Impacts Your Brain & Body | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 2 43:32

11 Ways Complex Trauma Impacts Your Brain & Body | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 2

Why Hitting Rock Bottom Can Be a Blessing in Disguise 16:08

Why Hitting Rock Bottom Can Be a Blessing in Disguise

When Pain Pulls You Backward: Recognizing Unhealthy Patterns and Healing Complex Trauma 9:46

When Pain Pulls You Backward: Recognizing Unhealthy Patterns and Healing Complex Trauma

How Trauma Changes How You Deal with Pain 14:24

How Trauma Changes How You Deal with Pain

Extreme Narcissists and Consequences | Complex Trauma 3:00

Extreme Narcissists and Consequences | Complex Trauma

How Love Bombing Undermines Your Boundaries | Codependency and Complex Trauma 0:55

How Love Bombing Undermines Your Boundaries | Codependency and Complex Trauma

The Perfect Disguise: How Narcissistic Behaviors Hide Deep Shame 1:00

The Perfect Disguise: How Narcissistic Behaviors Hide Deep Shame

10 Physical Symptoms of Complex Trauma | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 1 42:35

10 Physical Symptoms of Complex Trauma | The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 1

Healing from Burnout as Part of Complex Trauma Recovery 11:53

Healing from Burnout as Part of Complex Trauma Recovery

Setting Healthy Boundaries: Your Path to Freedom in Relationships 0:39

Setting Healthy Boundaries: Your Path to Freedom in Relationships

21 Signs You're Burnt Out, NOT LAZY 27:06

21 Signs You're Burnt Out, NOT LAZY

Smartphones: It's Time to Confront Our Addiction | Complex Trauma 21:36

Smartphones: It's Time to Confront Our Addiction | Complex Trauma

What are some of the signs and symptoms of burnout? 0:53

What are some of the signs and symptoms of burnout?

Burnout Carries a Harmful Stigma That Keeps You Trapped 0:35

Burnout Carries a Harmful Stigma That Keeps You Trapped

Why Healing Your Relationship With Your Body Changes EVERYTHING | C-PTSD & Codependency Recovery 10:01

Why Healing Your Relationship With Your Body Changes EVERYTHING | C-PTSD & Codependency Recovery

The Real Reasons You're Burning Out (Hint: It's Not Just Stress) 0:27

The Real Reasons You're Burning Out (Hint: It's Not Just Stress)

Re-Parenting - Part 101 - Pain, Childhood, and Complex Trauma 45:26

Re-Parenting - Part 101 - Pain, Childhood, and Complex Trauma

3 Major Body Issues in Complex Trauma: Disembodiment, Depersonalization, and Derealization 9:34

3 Major Body Issues in Complex Trauma: Disembodiment, Depersonalization, and Derealization

Why We Can't Look Away: Doomscrolling and Emotional Survival #shorts #complextrauma 0:44

Why We Can't Look Away: Doomscrolling and Emotional Survival #shorts #complextrauma

How Complex Trauma Affects Your Relationship with Your Body 14:08

How Complex Trauma Affects Your Relationship with Your Body

How Doomscrolling Feeds the Hidden Desire for Fear #shorts #complextrauma 0:29

How Doomscrolling Feeds the Hidden Desire for Fear #shorts #complextrauma

The Doomscrolling Comfort Zone: Trading Peace for Familiar Pain 0:43

The Doomscrolling Comfort Zone: Trading Peace for Familiar Pain

The Language of Fear: How to Identify the Symptoms Before You Reach a Breaking Point 15:42

The Language of Fear: How to Identify the Symptoms Before You Reach a Breaking Point

Doomscrolling: When Bad News Becomes a Bad Habit 0:34

Doomscrolling: When Bad News Becomes a Bad Habit

The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 38 - Burnout 46:08

The Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 38 - Burnout

Complex Trauma Explained: Why Fear Controls Our Responses 25:52

Complex Trauma Explained: Why Fear Controls Our Responses

The Survival Instinct of Always Saying Yes 0:24

The Survival Instinct of Always Saying Yes

Breaking the Spell of 'Family is Everything' #complextrauma #shorts 0:31

Breaking the Spell of 'Family is Everything' #complextrauma #shorts

How Complex Trauma Affects Emotional Resilience and Leads to Long-Term Consequences 27:52

How Complex Trauma Affects Emotional Resilience and Leads to Long-Term Consequences

'We're Family' - The Guilt Trip That Never Ends #shorts #complextrauma 0:26

'We're Family' - The Guilt Trip That Never Ends #shorts #complextrauma

Narcissists Do Not Respect the Word "No" #complextrauma #shorts #narcissism 0:56

Narcissists Do Not Respect the Word "No" #complextrauma #shorts #narcissism

Hoarding is a Symptom of Complex Trauma 21:11

Hoarding is a Symptom of Complex Trauma

You Can't Hold a Person's Hand Forever #complextrauma #shorts 0:43

You Can't Hold a Person's Hand Forever #complextrauma #shorts

Re-Parenting - Part 100 - Longings and Desires 50:56

Re-Parenting - Part 100 - Longings and Desires

Hoarding is More Than Just Being Messy 17:54

Hoarding is More Than Just Being Messy

How to Prevent People from Walking All Over You 0:37

How to Prevent People from Walking All Over You

Why You Can't Stop Doomscrolling | #complextrauma 18:35

Why You Can't Stop Doomscrolling | #complextrauma

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